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Curriculum Vitae!
I took a Gap year in 1972.I had discovered I
was a year younger than I thought I was (another story!),
I'd bought a one way ticket to Canada for £30 from a
chap in a pub, and I managed to persuade my land lord to pay
me £500 to move out of my London flat-so I had the time,
the money, and a ticket to ride, sort of a gap year situation.
Ever since spending years as a kid in Malaya,
Jordan, and Cyprus, I'd wanted to live abroad. After 5 grim
winters at skool in Somerset living in fear of the seniors
who'd beat us with half a billiard cue for such heinous crimes
as having our hands in our pockets or even the top button
of our pyjamas done up, I'd had enough.
I went into overseas banking, yawn, did a short
Short Service commission in Malaysia,fall out, and survived
a couple of years in Accountancy, terminal grey. Fed up with
working 9 to 5, I felt like a break to reassess my future - a gap year was the ideal solution.
Within three weeks I was working as a dive boat guide in the
Florida Keys, next I moved onto a big game sportsfishing boat.
I spent most of that first winter catching sailfish, shark,
and all kinds of exotic fish, I lived and worked on
the boat, and others too as the season ebbed and flowed. I
saved, bought more camera equipment, shot lots of film, got
better at photography, and began to make money from it. Getting a gap year job was far easier than I had imagined.
When I came back to England after 6 months I
was a different person. I felt hugely self confident, I'd
done all kinds of new things, met new friends, and felt well
able to cope with anything that came my way. I never went
near the City again, I joined a first generation trance band
called Zorch during the summers, and was given my name Hektor
Krome as I was in charge of photography and publicity, and
Zorched around on one of 40 or so bikes that I've survived.
I spent several more winters in the Keys, mostly being paid
to fish, sometimes I'd do gardening, restaurant work, driving, construction,-there
was always something you could find, I'd get commissions to photograph
portraits, resorts and properties, sold loads of photos from my portfolio, and also worked helping to train dolphins.
One winter I was shipwrecked off Africa en route for
Brazil where I intended to spend the winter exploring the Amazon. I
got back to England with a safe conduct pass.
I regrouped, bought a new passport and headed back to the Keys to recoup my
losses. I
was too
late for a job on a boat, so I set myself up as the dock photographer
and made a small fortune snapping at the tourists and their catch.
In all I spent 5 winters in the Keys-never short of money,
work, or adventures. My whole life changed, and in the 80's and 90's I
spent most winters in the Indian subcontinent and the Far East living out
under the stars, not spending one single penny on accomodation for months
on end. I spent less than a pound a day on average, far cheaper and
infinitely more fun than a winter in England, I took photos, communed with
the locals, and enjoyed life to the max.
I started giving these talks twelve years ago
and popularised taking an independent Gap Year . I've met
dozens of "my" school leavers all over the world
having the time of their lives. There are all kinds of excellent
organisations which will arrange various activities, often
at great expense.
I believe that a great number of students, like me, have had
enough of being continually supervised, and yearn to get away somewhere
safe but challenging to use their initiative and take responsibility for
themselves. To have fun, perhaps do voluntary work, have the
adventure of their lives, something which will make them feel proud of
their achievements, a memory which will last forever. To return, matured,
self confident and better able to use their initiative, wordly wise and
more tolerant of other nationalities. You also find out and modify your
strengths and weaknesses, the mountain is clearer from the plain, you
appreciate more of what we take so much for granted.
Opportunities come to those who actively seek them,
don't wait for your boat to come in-swim out to meet it and get ahead
of the bums on the beach who are waiting for opportunity to fall into
their laps...............
30 years later I'm still out there, I've never been
back to the 9 to5. No regrets, adventures a plenty, a thousand nights
beneath tropical stars, free, solvent, nothing on credit, . Life is for living, Dead Poets' Society, carpe
diem, to survive is miracle enough, and all that wonderful jazz.
As Nike says-"just do it"-but don't spend 50 to
80 quid on a pair of trainers which'll humm their own tune in a month's
time-put the money instead into your travelling fund. Remember, too, that
an hour working at the greasy spoon-Macdonalds, pays £4-enough for two
day's b an b and food in paradise-Bali.
Get to it! Carpe Diem, it's your life....
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